How important is community? How important is country? How important is family? How important is lineage? How important is religion? To what level should one honor and serve these things? I don’t know the answers, and I’m sure it differs depending on who you ask, but I’m willing to put them in order of importance…
1. Family
2. Community
3. Country
4. Religion
5. Lineage
Many might disagree with my priorities, but there’s a method to the madness. Family is the most important because it has the most direct, immediate, and has the most lasting impact on who a person is. Chances are if your family is screwed up, you’re going to be too.
Community is number two because it has the second most powerful effect on our daily lives. I am using community in a pretty broad sense to mean the town or county we live in, our friends and neighbors, local politicians, etc. These are people we tend to know personally (except maybe for the local politicians – although we should know them).
Country is third because, depending on what country you’re from, you could go your entire life without having anything to do with the federal government (outside of taxes), without stepping foot in a federal building, without voting, without watching the national news, and still be a happy, well adjusted person – maybe even more so than if you were involved – but it is still relatively important to participate. Large governments could run amok without strict supervision.
Religion I put as fourth because I acknowledge the impact it has on many people’s lives and I acknowledge that it is often a positive part of community but I think if one’s personal faith in himself and what (s)he believes to be God is strong, then a powerful organized religion can actually be detrimental (this blends into my next point).
Lineage I put as last because, outside of curiosity, what does it really matter? The suffering that various peoples have had over the centuries is no trivial matter, to be sure, but the fact (or assumption) that we may be descended from one of those peoples does not mean we necessarily share their suffering. African Americans (and all those descended from the African slave trade) had their heritage stolen from them and that is absolutely tragic. I understand any “African” wanting to embrace African culture and trying to get a piece of that heritage back, but it will never erase the slave trade. It will never bring back their lost culture. As far as I’m concerned it’s the same with Jews. The physical land now called Israel has changed so much and has been conquered and/or desecrated by so many peoples, how can it be “theirs” anymore? Why does it need to be? I’m not necessarily suggesting the dissolution of Israel, I’m just saying that it’s better to make the most of what we do have than to focus on what we think we’re owed from generations past.
My general point is this: if we all focused on family, community and country, in that order, and focused less on religion and lineage, we might be able to make some serious progress as “children of the Earth”. Think what would happen if the Israelis and Palestinians decided they didn’t care about the holy land any more; if they realized that God is all around and inside each one of them, so why worry about any particular geographical location. What if all the theocracies in the Middle East were replaced with secular democracies? That’s what most Westerners want anyway, isn’t it? How could that be done? They’d have to move religion from #1 on the list to #4. Obviously they’re not going to do that, but it’s food for thought for those of us who are “proud as hell to be Irish” or foist our “Christian morals” on others. We shouldn’t be ashamed to be Irish or Christian by any means, but we shouldn’t be “proud” to the extreme either. Lineage and religion are parts of where we came from, but they’re not really a part of who we are as individuals. At least that’s my take. It’s an over simplification but, like I said in the heading, I’m just throwing it out there.